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Exciting new Icebreaker feature and updates to our Terms and Conditions

As the name suggests, Icebreaker is designed to ‘break the ice” when meeting other members. Icebreaker is intended to connect members with each other according to their location and preferences, to enable better success in finding that perfect date, partner or fling.

Members which enabled the Icebreaker system on their profile will be giving permission to us to send introductory messages or actions on your behalf, to members and initiate conversation for you. Later on you will be able to customize your Icebreaker message, however if you choose not to do so we reserve the right to send standard messages.

By accepting our updated Terms and Conditions you are choosing to opt into the Icebreaker system’ giving us the right to perform Icebreaker actions on your behalf, which means we may send Icebreaker messages, view profiles, send friend requests, send gifts, comment on content and mark content as “hot”. We do not send Icebreaker messages or carry out Icebreaker actions on behalf of Users who terminated their membership, cancelled their account, or who have not been logged-in into their profile for the last four full calendar months.

All Icebreaker actions are marked with the speech bubble symbol.


Icebreaker actions will be sent to other members who match one or more of your preferences. If a member has a large number of matches, these messages or actions may be limited to a lower number. In contrast, if there is few or not enough matching profiles, we have the right to not send Icebreaker messages or carry out actions on your behalf. Icebreakers are carried out solely at our discretion and not by request, or in preference to other Users.

Please understand that although Icebreaker messages and actions aim to connect members the recipient of these may choose freely whether to respond or not. Members may not respond to you for various reasons, including without limitation, the User is not interested in responding, may not be actively monitoring his or her profile or may no longer be available.

Icebreaker gives members the advantage of having a personalised introduction to other active members, taking the pressure off sending that first message, and assisting you with getting better acquainted with each other. This will result in you becoming more engaged with the website, and ultimately having a more rewarding experience online.

You can learn more about the Icebreaker here:

  • Mitsy86: Soon as i paid.. the messages have stopped. Feel alone, feel duped!!
  • DeepSouth12: I concur on all statements made above......
  • bextababe73: How do you get RID OF ice breaker ?? I can`t find a delete button to get rid of ice breaker ...
  • cum4me2003: There definitely should be an option to switch off ice breaker.
  • Scorpioblueyes76: As soon as I paid all messages stopped. and most the girls around me haven't been on in years. I feel i just got ripped the fuck off!!! I know it's a risk but come on
  • lovetolickpussy718: support we should be able to send eachother contact information if we are trying to hookup woth eachother stop censoring us we are adults on here
  • hornychicogirl: So not only is the new "ice breaker" option a shitty add-on added we're not able to send contact info as GROWN ASS ADULTS, but now what happened to the "members" option from the drop down menu?? I don't want to see "matches" of people who haven't logged on in years I want talk to people who are online right now! Jesus Christ fb support you're running this website into the ground and it used to be great!
  • Arque: Now it appears they have also gotten rid of the Online Now function on the search making the site all but useless. Having to go through page after page of fake/inactive profiles to find people who are online has made the site unusable on top of all the other issues mentioned in the previous comments.
  • Horny_01: Fuckbook doesn't actually want you to contact anyone that is online. They will contact people on your behalf now, it's called the useless icebreaker option.
  • lovetolickpussy718: the ice breaker option is useless we dont want fuckbook to contact people for us we want to do ourselves alot of the member on the matches havent been on for a while.. come on fuckbook give use the power over the site and let us contact eachother we are grown adults and most of the guy who have paid account and are verified should get a perk and also we want the picture option back and the online option back thank you guys
  • Horny_01: Before anyone gets offended or I get sent a nasty email from administration for my post.... it was meant as a joke.
  • Arque: Ah just found something interesting, put "?online=1" after users in the url on the search page and it'll bring up the online users again.